Saturday, April 19, 2008

Almost...but not quite!


My little man is 11 months old today! One more month & he will be a year old. I can't believe it! He was 3 weeks old when we started the adoption process with him. I am so blessed & thankful to have been able to see him twice already. The first time at two months & the second time at 6 months old. We have been praying that he would be home by his first birthday but it currently looks like it will be after that. I am glad that Randy will be seeing him in May & can celebrate his birthday with him although it will be 2 weeks early. We can't wait for you & your sisters to come home!

Friday, April 18, 2008

"All shook up...literally!"

Well, if you haven't heard by now, our area was awakened with a "jolt" this morning. An earthquake that measured 5.2 on the richter scale with the epi center in a town in Illinois which is 45 miles away from our area happened this morning at approximately 4:37am.

I have never lived or have even been to California so I don't know what it's like to live in "earthquake country" but I was raised in a town about an hour & a half north of New Madrid...on the New Madrid fault line. We would have "small" earthquakes from time to time that would last maybe 10 seconds or so although we were always warned to be prepared for the "big one" that may happen any day.

The last earthquake that I can remember other than a couple of tremors we felt while living in NC, was in the early 1990's in Missouri. Randy & I were married & living in the upper rental unit of a house. Randy was at work & I was at home getting ready for school. I was in nursing school at the time. The walls started shaking, my knick knacks started moving & a couple of things fell off the wall. It lasted about ten seconds.

My zoo trip the other day sparked a pretty significant allergy episode which has resulted in a lot of drainage & coughing. Our bedroom is downstairs. I couldn't go to sleep last night laying flat due to all of the coughing & drainage so I decided to go up stairs & sit in Randy's recliner to see if I would fall asleep. It's funny because his chair is very comfortable & he falls asleep in it all the time but I could not fall asleep. I dozed off from time to time but really never fell asleep.

So at about 4:30 I decided to move to the couch to see if I could fall asleep there. I was just about to doze off when I heard & felt a "rattling." At first I didn't know what was going on & I thought that someone was trying to get in the front door. Then I sat up & saw that the walls were shaking as well as our very large & heavy entertainment center. I stood up & at this point this is where the earthquake would have normally stopped but it kept going so I started praying fervently as I walked to Phoebe's room. She was sound asleep on her top bunk. I stood by her bed & held onto it & then the shaking stopped. I thanked God & then headed toward the basement. They say that the basement is the last place you want to be in an earthquake.

For those of you who know Randy's sleeping habits you know that he can sleep through anything...severe storms, tornadoes, floods, crying & screaming children, vacumming right by his head, you name it! I got to the top of the steps & looked down to the bottom to find Randy standing there looking at me as he asked, "Did you feel that?" Ugh, yes, I sure did!!! We did a quick once over to make sure everything was okay inside structurally & then we turned on the TV. The first local station we turned on had a commercial so we flipped to the next local station. Ironically enough the man was doing the weather. We listened intently to see if he was going to say anything about the earthquake but he just went on & on about rain heading our way. Then he went back to the desk where his co anchor was. They just looked at each other & then he said, "We're waiting for more information to come in but I think we just had a pretty significant earthquake for our area." Then they started taking calls from viewers & one lady who either still lives in California but was visiting or who use to live in California called in & said she had been in a lot of earthquakes in California but never one that had lasted as long as the one this morning.

We have had a couple of aftershocks so far & may have some more through out the day. Please pray that we will continue to be safe. Thanks!

Thursday, April 17, 2008

Caleb's ears...


Please pray for Caleb. My little man has an ear infection. He is currently on antibiotics & tolerating the medicine well. Please pray that he will heal quickly & will not get any more ear infections. Thanks!

Monday, April 14, 2008

Highlight of the evening...


Everyone had a very good time Friday night but this was probably the highlight of the evening! Thanks Madelyn & Derek! :o)

April Gathering...




These are pictures from our Haitian Adoptive Families Gathering that was held last Friday at my church. There are 9 families but unfortunately 4 of them were unable to attend.

Saturday, April 12, 2008

Can you do this???



I don't know why this is turned the wrong way. It's the right way on my computer album but not here. Sorry about having to do the head turn thing :o)

Wednesday, April 9, 2008

Costly Adoption...

That was the title of the devotion that Randy & I read this morning. I was the one reading it aloud & I could barely get through it. I had to stop a couple of times & recompose myself. It really spoke to me & I hope it "speaks" to you as well. This is from Wed. April 9 out of the CPH "Portals of Prayer."

"See what kind of love the Father has given to us, that we should be called children of God." 1 John 3:1

We met a new family member at the reunion this year. She didn't resemble any of us, yet she delighted all of us. During a work assignment in China, my cousin took his family to tour an orphanage. They noticed that no one was attending to one particular newborn's needs. The family was told that because she was so tiny, she was destined to die. They begged the staff to allow them to take the 3 pound baby home to care for her. Finally, the staff agreed.

After months of love, nurture, & sleepless nights. Angel was restored to health. The family grew to love Angel & wanted her to be a part of their family. The adoption process was painstaking. It took two years of frustration, financial drain, & perseverance. But now, Angel belongs to them.

What the family did for Angel is what God has done for us. While we were yet in our helpless sinful condition, Christ came to our rescue. Our adoption cost Jesus' life. We contributed nothing. We simply were given a marvelous gift of love. We can do nothing to repay Jesus; we can only thank Him for what He already has done. In Christ, we live lives that bring honor to God.

"Jesus, thank you for making such a costly sacrifice to make us children of God. Amen."

Monday, April 7, 2008

Please pray...

for our children's birthparents & their Parquet interviews that are scheduled for Wednesday. Please pray that they all show up & the interviews go smoothly. Please pray that God's peace & comfort will fill their hearts as they have to go through yet another "interview" to complete the adoption process. Please also pray for their safety as they travel to & from the interview. Thanks!

Wednesday, April 2, 2008

Be still...

One of my favorite Bible verses has always been "Be still & know that I am God" even though I'm not the best at being "still." For the past few weeks this verse has been playing over & over in my head. I've been trying to be still & listen to God speak but apparently I haven't been still enough. So for the past 5 days I have basically been in bed all day being sick & very "still." I am thankful that I have been out of bed all day today...thank you Lord! The following is a devotion by Dr. David Jeremiah on being still.

The Cushion of the Sea
Be still, and know that I am God. Psalm 46:10
Recommended Reading
Matthew 11:28-30

A number of years ago, a submarine being tested had to be submerged for several hours. Upon returning to harbor, the captain was asked, "How did that terrible storm last night affect you?" Surprised, the captain exclaimed, "Storm? We didn't even know there was one!" Their submarine had been so far beneath the surface that it had reached what sailors refer to as "the cushion of the sea"—a depth in the ocean where the waters below are never stirred despite any commotion on the surface.

In our fast-paced world, it is a challenge to slow down and remember that God is in control. We are a society of "do-everything," "go-everywhere," "get-it-done" people who mistakenly believe we can handle everything if we just keep going. In reality, we need to become so submerged in God's peace that no matter what's happening in our lives, we are able to remain as calm as "the cushion of the sea."

If you feel overwhelmed, bogged down, or burnt out, add one more activity to your daily schedule: Spend time with Almighty God. It is the only way to reach the depth needed to find true calm in the midst of any storm.

In the name of Jesus Christ, who was never in a hurry, we pray, O God, that You will slow us down, for we know that we live too fast.
Peter Marshall

Sunday, March 30, 2008

March picture recap...


Spring Break Review...

Well, Phoebe had a great spring break. Although she had a minor version of the "crud" I have, she really enjoyed Spring Break Sports Camp. She liked doing gymnastics the best...no surprise there! They finished the camp on Friday with a Karate demonstration so now she's been "practicing" some moves on us...thanks camp! :o) I guess I did "okay" with my to do list considering I was dealing with allergies, a chest cold, & a hand thing all week. I did get Caleb's room finished & I am really pleased on how it looks. I still have to organize closets, utility room, & garages. I will work on the closets & utility room over the next couple of weeks & then will tackle the garages after that. I don't want to wait too long to complete those projects because I will soon be heading out doors to do spring planting & some outside painting to the house trim, garages, & shed. I wanted to do that last spring but got sidetracked with adoption paper work so I really want to do it this year because I know that once the kids come home I won't be tackling any major projects for quite some time. The high light of my week was Carolina getting into the Final 4!

Thursday, March 27, 2008

Giving...

As I have grown closer to the Lord over the years, my idea of giving has changed a lot. I have always considered myself a giving person but after some careful reflection or maybe through some convicting conversations with God, I realized that I still had a ways to go in this area. God wants us to be generous in our giving. That doesn't mean He is telling us to give away all of our money...He may...but a lot of times He does not. In the Bible God instructs us to be a cheerful giver. We should be cheerful whether we are giving a little or a lot, whether it be money or in time or talents, & above all it should be done to the Glory of God & not so we can boast in ourselves. So now when God instructs me to give I try not to even hesitate about it. I may not even know why He's instructing me to give a certain thing or at a certain time that may not make sense to me but I need to trust in His plans & His ways & be obedient. The following is a devotion by Dr. David Jeremiah on giving & helping others.

Ten Dollar Bill

Dear children, let us not love with words or tongue but with actions and in truth.
1 John 3:18 NIV


Recommended Reading
1 Timothy 6:17-19


Traveling home from Georgia, a man saw a family walking on the side of the road; so he pulled over to see if they needed help. He discovered they had just lost their home in a fire the night before, and they were almost to their neighbor's house where they would stay temporarily. Seeing that they didn't need a ride, the man pulled a ten dollar bill from his wallet, handed it to the family, and drove away. The Lord began to speak to him though, reminding him of his thriving business, palatial home, bank accounts, and investments. He pulled over and emptied his wallet into his hat. He then drove back to the family and handed them all of the money, which amounted to several hundred dollars.

In the face of disaster, we have witnessed many generous people reaching out to those who've lost everything. This spirit of sharing should be evident in the lives of believers all the time, but especially in times of great need.


Be warm and merciful and let no one go from you empty-handed. The least you can offer is your time and patience, your affection and prayer.
Anonymous

Tuesday, March 25, 2008

Jumpin'

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A friend sent this to me yesterday & I just had to post it. It's Shakira on her birthday last year.

Monday, March 24, 2008

MIA Alert...

Just wanted to give everyone a head's up that I may be MIA this week in blog land. Phoebe has Spring Break Sports Camp M-F this week from 8-5. She will have free play time, playing baseball, basketball, dodgeball, flag football, gymnastics, & soccer. She will also get to watch movies & make crafts. She will be very busy & so will I!

I'm sure most of you are thinking since I will have the whole house to myself all week that I can sit back, relax, watch soaps, & eat bon bons. Although that sounds really nice, I can assure you that is not what will be happening here. Here is my to do list for the week. This is of course, in addition to my normal daily activities.

1. Strip wall paper out of Caleb's closet
2. Prep Caleb's room for painting
3. Paint Caleb's room
4. Pull out carpet in Caleb's room
5. Clean & polish the floor in Caleb's room
6. Organize 5 closets, large downstairs utility room, & 2 garages
7. Take a nap :o)

Please pray for Phoebe's safety as she will be very active this week. Please pray for mine as well :o) I'll give you an update at the end of the week to let you know if I was able to finish my list of things to do. Have a great week!

Sunday, March 23, 2008

Easter Pictures...



Sorry that I don't have church pictures included in this. Mrs. "Organization" forgot her camera & Phoebe's Easter basket this morning.

He is Risen!!!






He is risen indeed!!! These are pictures from yesterday's Easter service at the orphanage. Have a blessed Resurrection Day!

Saturday, March 22, 2008

Phone call...


This is the closest that Shakira got to a phone call with us today. We were suppose to have a skype call today but they were having connection problems in Haiti so we didn't have it. We finally have a web cam now so they will be able to see us now at home.

Friday, March 21, 2008

Good Friday...

Today is "Good Friday." I always thought that was a strange title for today. I'm sure if I had beaten, made to carry a cross, & then be crucified on it...I wouldn't call it "good." I know that although Jesus's death was very painful & "bad" for him...it was "good" for us. For without it we would not have the opportunity to have a close, personal relationship with him through the Holy Spirit & we would still be sacrificing animals for the temporary atonement of our sins. Jesus made that atonement for us...once & for all.

The following is today's devotion from Dr. David Jeremiah. He mentions the different traditions that different countries across the world do at Easter. They also fly kites in Haiti at Easter.

Go Fly a Kite

There they crucified Him.
Luke 23:33


Recommended Reading
Luke 23:26-34


Today is Karfreitag, a German word meaning "Friday of Lamentation." In English we call it Good Friday, but other languages usually refer to it as Holy Friday. In Armenia it's called High Friday, and the Russians refer to it as Passion Friday. In China, it's known as the Day of Christ's Suffering.

In Bermuda, kites will be flown today, all of them using wooden frames in the shape of a cross. As the kites soar into the sky, they symbolize the crucified one who has now ascended into heaven. In England, hot cross buns will be served, and the BBC will introduce its morning newscast with a verse from Isaac Watts' hymn, "When I Survey the Wondrous Cross."

All over the world, Christians will pause today to ponder anew the wonder of our Lord Jesus who shed His blood for the sins of the world. Perhaps each of us should establish a personal tradition. Let's find a way and a time today to direct our thoughts to the old rugged cross and to thank God for overcoming death and making us more than conquerors through Him.


I can't control all the circumstances, but I have One who lives within me who is able to triumph over them all, because if He triumphed over death, is there anything that can happen to me that is too much for Him?
David Jeremiah

I pray that you are having a very blessed & thankful "Good Friday."

Happy Spring!!!


Yeah, Spring is finally here!!!

Tuesday, March 18, 2008

Stuck in my discomfort...

After talking to a few of my friends lately either in person or via comptuer, I've come to the realization that there must be a "cloud of dryness & reflection" hanging over us right now. I use to ignore my spiritual "dry spells" because I don't like feeling dry...it makes me uncomfortable. But as I continue to grow closer to God I know that these "dry places" can also be places of change & growth if I allow them to be. So for the past few weeks I have been reflecting on my life & God's plan for me. It's a good thing to do from time to time but it can get pretty deep with thoughts & feelings. Add to it that with the exception of a couple of days here & there it has either been freezing cold, ice, snowing, or raining since the middle of December = one very "interesting" Kathy. Randy & Phoebe deserve some sort of reward for having to deal with my hormones, SADD, & reflection time right now. So as I eagerly anticipate spring & the things it brings such as sunny, warmer days, & blooming flowers...I eagerly anticpate moving out of the dry desert into a land of green grass & gently flowing rivers.

Saturday, March 15, 2008

Friday, March 14, 2008

Get ready...




because the first "deployment" of the E-ville crew from Haiti will be here soon! I just got the word today that my friend Michelle's files are on the last desk of the last step prior to getting their passports & visa....Praise God!!! Please pray that they will be home very, very soon!

Sunday, March 9, 2008

Pray for Haiti...

Please pray for the people of Haiti as well for all of our adoptions. Below is an article just recently published by a woman who has been involved with Haiti for quite awhile.

The article was published in the San Francisco Daily Journal and ran on Thursday, Februrary 28th.

Love and Haiti
By Vera Valdivia

The country of Haiti is located just 600 miles off the coast of Florida. It is the poorest country in the Western Hemisphere and one of the poorest in the world. Additionally, Haiti has one of the worst records of human rights violations in the world.

It is time for a call to action, which is why on Friday, March 7, 2008, at Thomas Jefferson School of Law in San Diego, a panel consisting of legal academics, Haitian government officials, a Haitian human rights lawyer and women and children’s rights activists are coming together to discuss these egregious violations.

In Haiti, political activities result in the violation of human rights through kidnapping and torture, poor people are detained in jails without legal representation for stealing a loaf of bread, girls and women are forced into prostitution, children are used as household slaves, thousands of children die from malnutrition and illness, and hundreds of babies die at birth or shortly thereafter.

The Haitian legal system is not available to protect the victims because only people with financial resources can afford justice. In Haiti, about 10 percent of the population holds 90 percent of the wealth. Consequently, the economically powerless, especially women and children, suffer unspeakable abuses and do not have access to the protection of law. Many of the tiniest victims of this abuse end up in one of the morgues located in the capital city of Port-au-Prince. The morgue I saw resembles a toy store with what looks like hundreds of toy dolls on storage shelves in a large dark room. However, they are not dolls but dead babies and children who are stacked on top of one another on shelves that reach all the way to the ceiling. Nobody seems to cry for these dead children, nobody asks how or why they died. Nobody comes to claim their bodies.
Many of the dead babies were born to the girls and women who have been forced into prostitution for various reasons, and as a result many unwanted babies are born. Babies end up in garbage piles on the side of the road, inside of sewer drains or in the river drowned. Some of the babies are born out of liaisons between the prostitutes and U.N. peacekeeping troops.

American, Canadian, French and Dutch nonprofit humanitarian or church-sponsored organizations operate and fund many of the Haitian orphanages that provide shelter to some of the unwanted, abandoned and orphaned babies and older children. Several of these organizations seek adoptive homes for the children and, since the mid-1990s, thousands of Haitian children have found permanent homes with families in the United States, Canada, France, the Netherlands, Spain, Belgium, Ireland, Argentina and Germany. Although international adoption is not the long-term solution for the plight of so many of Haiti’s children, it provides homes to unwanted children while the Haitian government and the international community should be working on making fundamental changes in the country’s economic and legal system.

UNICEF has expressed its concern to the Haitian government regarding the deplorable conditions under which the majority of Haitian children have to live. Although UNICEF does not have the financial resources to improve the situation of the abandoned and orphaned children, it told the Haitian government that “too many children” were adopted internationally.

In 2006, approximately 1,059 formerly abandoned and orphaned Haitian children joined their adoptive families in the above-mentioned countries. This number dropped dramatically in 2007, when only approximately 724 adopted Haitian children joined their new families. However, this decrease is not a result of a drop in numbers of abandoned or orphaned children because Haitian orphanages are still filled beyond capacity, and needy children are turned away daily because there is no more room.

Some powerful judicial and government officials appear to have taken notice of UNICEF’s concern regarding the large numbers of children leaving the country through adoption. One of the judicial officials, a powerful judge with the title of chief prosecutor of the Port-au-Prince parquet (the main court), is in charge of approving international adoptions for orphanages located within the capital’s judicial district. Another government official works within the Ministry of Interior who has been placed in charge of approving passport applications for adopted children who are about to leave the country to live with their new families.

In 2007, the chief prosecutor began refusing to sign adoption decrees even though the petitions have been approved by the home countries of the adopting families after thorough screening and by IBESR, the Haitian Social Services Ministry. More than 300 adoption files have been stuck in his office during 2007. These adoption files represent 300 children who remain in orphanages waiting, while their prospective adoptive parents hope that the chief prosecutor will have a miraculous change of heart and sign the decrees.

One of the problems with the Haitian legal system, which is based on French Napoleonic codes, is that as new laws are passed by the legislature, old laws are not repealed and stay on the books. One of these old, unrepealed laws only permits childless singles or couples to adopt. The law had not been applied in years, but the chief prosecutor cites this particular law as the reason he has not signed off on the adoption decrees. In response to the existence of the old law, Haitian President René Préval has issued letters of exemption for these families granting a presidential pardon and permitting the adoption. The chief prosecutor, however, has continued with his refusal to sign the adoption files. Conversely, many of the waiting adoption files are of childless singles or couples, and the chief prosecutor has refused to sign those adoption decrees as well, without citing a reason. Some of the adoption files have been waiting in the main court for a year.

Since January 2007, the Ministry of Interior has been in charge of reviewing all documents related to completed adoptions that have been processed and legalized by the different Parquet (court) locations in Haiti and the few adoptions that the chief prosecutor has signed. The passport office is not permitted to issue passports for adopted children without an approval letter from the Ministry of Interior. Approximately 500 completed adoption files are currently awaiting such approval. Some files have been waiting for passport approval for the past 12 months. In the meantime, adopted children who are no longer abandoned or orphaned cannot join their new families because they cannot leave the country without a Haitian passport.

Instead of focusing on the real problems and working to make effective changes that will improve the lives of children, these officials have reduced the number of adopted children who left the country during 2007 by about 32 percent. Hundreds of children whose files are stuck in the adoption process or who are waiting for passports remain in orphanages. Other children, without a prospect for a better future, continue to be homeless, malnourished and ill.

Haiti is desperately in need of possible solutions to its human rights crisis and changes to its legal system. These fundamental changes have to be made in order to improve Haiti’s human rights record and to improve the lives of all Haitians, but especially those of women and children.

Saturday, March 8, 2008

Fun in the Snow...



Well, we finally got a "real" snow last night. Not ice, not just a couple of inches of snow...but a "real" snow of 4-6 inches. Enough to make a "real" snowman & go sledding. Randy & Phoebe made this snowman together. I brought out the "extras" to go on Mr. Snowman.

Wednesday, March 5, 2008

Man, Oh, Man!....



Are you ever getting big my "little man?" Not to mention...so cute!!!

Tuesday, March 4, 2008

Goody bags...



I sent Shakira, Samara, & Caleb goody bags from us down with the Feb. trip. It looks like the girls enjoyed theirs. I didn't get a picture of Caleb with his...hopefully he liked the baby food I sent down :o)

Sunday, March 2, 2008

Kristal Bells...


This is Phoebe playing with the "Kristal Bells" today. It's a children's hand bells group with the church where her pre school is located. They played Amazing Grace.